Sensual Massage and Sexy Lingerie- Seducing Your Lover the Old Fashioned Way
Some things remain popular for hundreds or even thousands of years because they are just that good. When it comes to seduction, thee tried but true ring loud and clear as some of the best methods to use and for good reason. These methods such as sexy lingerie go back to the primitive nature that makes man attracted to woman and excite the sexual senses in us all. Sexy lingerie provides a visual aid as well as the confidence that you want to exuberate sexiness around your partner. Sensual massage allows you both to slow down and really see and feel each other with all of your senses.
Sensual massage is a great way to get in touch with both your partner and your own sexy side. It allows you quality time to spend together just enjoying each other. You don’t even have to have intercourse; just the act of a sensual massage is a bonding and sexy experience. To obtain the full benefit of your sensual massage, we have written some guidelines below. Just remember not to get so caught up in the specifics that you don't have fun. Relax and do what feels right to you and your partner.
What to Wear
Sexy costumes are one great way to set the stage for your massage. Your massage receiver should be wearing as little as possible but since some people do not feel comfortable completely naked, your partner might want to lie in their underwear. You can wear some naughty lingerie to set the mood, make your receiver more comfortable and help you feel like the sexual Goddess you know you are.
There are many great options for you out there, no matter what your shape and size to help you feel great. Sexy plus size lingerie and sexy plus size costumes are available for you so you can be sure you always get the right size that you can feel beautiful and comfortable in. Also be sure to wear something that you can move comfortably in since you will be moving around to give the massage.
Don't forget to complete your look with sexy platform shoes or other hot footwear that make you feel great. Remember that the focus is on the sensual massage but the sexy lingerie adds to the feel and effect. This isn’t just for your partner (although he is sure to love looking at you in it); it's also for you. When you wear sexy lingerie, you will look and feel better about yourself and this attitude will radiate from you while you give your sensual massage.
Oils, Lotions and other Aids
While giving a sensual massage, you will want some types of oils and lotions. Aromatherapy body oils or massage oils are a great idea because you can find some sexy scents that make great aphrodisiacs or also soothing and calming scents that help you and your partner feel relaxed. There are many great products out there that can make this easier for you. Be sure your partner is prepared as if they were going to bed. They may want to remove makeup, glasses or contacts and jewelry before this special massage.
You want to set the stage for your sensual massage so that both of you are relaxed. To do this, you want to be sure your partner feels clean and comfortable. Being clean isn't necessary before a massage but it will typically help your partner feel relaxed since you are going to massage every part of their body. Additionally, you want to be sure you are not going to be interrupted so turn off the cell phone, unplug the house phone and lock the door if needed. Playing soft, sensuous music in the background and dimming the lights and burning aromatherapy candles are other ways you can relax and set the mood.
Where to Begin
Now that the stage is set and you are ready to begin, where do you begin? One of the best places to begin is with your partner on their stomach and massaging at the base of the spine. This is relaxing and helps reduce tension so they can enjoy the rest of the massage. You will slowly and carefully make your way along the rest of the back, the legs, the arms, the feet and hands, shoulders, buttocks and even the genitals. Be sure to read your partner's reactions to see what they enjoy. Remember to take your time and that this doesn't have to end in intercourse (although it's perfectly fine if it does).
With these tips you can enjoy seducing your lover in old fashioned ways with a modern-age twist. New products and sexy lingerie make it easier and more exciting to have a fun night with your lover any day of the week!